| 释义 | 
		be cruel to be kind to do something to someone that will make them upset or unhappy in order to help them in another way为了对某人好就得对他狠—cruelly adv:•He was cruelly neglected by his parents.父母狠心地任由他无人照顾。     be cruel to be kind                     act towards someone in a way which seems harsh but will ultimately be of benefit to them                (最终使其受益的)严厉对待某人。                                      |